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12. Can you say a bit about how your mother’s body and style has been passed down to you, or not?
My mother is very critical of herself and has self esteem issues, and it affected me a lot growing up because she would also (and still does) make comments about my body. As I've gotten older, I've learned to embrace my body a bit better. Style-wise, she wears what she is comfortable in and I do too.
My mother has never thought much about fashion (or at least that I know of). She always just picked non-descript items and wore them. She was also a single mom of 4. She didn’t have much time or money to think of those things
same style and same taste in clothing.
Fortunately I'm not like my mother except one thing that we have in common, small hips, that makes our boditypes square shaped.
Her style is also more traditionally feminine, I don't like to confirm to that now. But her sense of style is great I think.
I like same colours and patterns.I suppose trends do not vary just return time for time. I love knee long slim fit clothes, with elbow long sleeves.
My mother never suggested to me that I should care that much about how my body looked. My body was a thing to use and enjoy, to climb trees, or do chores, or go on long walks. In my teens I resented that she never talk me how to shave my legs or pluck my eyebrows, but in adulthood I am so grateful that she never even opened the possibility that how I looked determined my value.
My Mom liked to look nice. She didn’t worry about labels. It was about how she looked. I will shop labels, but it is still about how I look in it. She always wore lipstick and nothing else. I wear eye makeup, blush and maybe Vaseline on my lips. Foundation just never worked for my Mom or me.
my mom has great taste and is awesome at the hunt. but she does not have a good relationship with her body. she's not afraid to buy things for pleasure and fun. I have great taste, too. I work hard to have a good relationship with my body. And I try to be more like her and treat myself.
I'm a bit curvier and we have different styles, but she sometimes borrows my clothes.
My mom is very casual also
She has an apple shape which is harder to dress but comfort is most important
i inherited her fear of getting or looking fat. and her thick dark hair. style-wise, i'm pretty much her opposite now, but i wore a lot of the clothes she kept from the 80s and 90s.
Her style rules were: quality over quantity, natural materials, and not too tight.
Both of us are pear-shaped petites, although I'm a bit bigger. We both love Breton tops and boat neck lines. I was definitely influenced by her! she tends to prefer more casual/comfort, and I keep trying to look a bit more put together (without sacrificing comfort).
My mother has never been interested in clothes. I can't remember learning anything about them from her. This wasn't inherited by me and neither was her body. We both appreciate turqoise jewelry though.
My mom had such a difficult childhood, growing up with a single mother who resented every minute of her life as a widow, that she has never had any confidence in her own style. Additionally, our body types are diametrically opposed. I am not even sure which of my relatives passed down the genes contributing to my small frame.
I got a lot of my dad, but i'm quite short.
My mum was overweight for most of my life as I am now. Not crazy overweight, but definitely carrying around a bit of excess.
In her 50s, she started running regularly and lost a fair bit of weight, which has inspired me. I'm still on my own fitness journey but seeing her be happy in her own skin now and look amazing in clothes is motivating for me.
I don't have my mother's slim figure, but I have her love of black and dark colours
My mom really transform my way of dressing in a good way,I really follow her styles because she knows what is style
My mom helped me pick clothing as a kid so I believe part of her style is now embedded in mine.
We are nothing alike and share no style similarities
My mom is thin and average height. She has a small waist, and legs thinner than mine. She showed me how to look stylish and not show too much skin.
My Mother is a fundamentalist Christian who wears ankle-length skirts, birkenstocks, and floral prints. I like to say I've swung the opposite direction, but it's not strictly true.
As I get older, I notice elements of my Mother's style in the way I dress. My hair texture is usually naturally curly, and I wear minimal makeup and jewelry. We've both got mad love for gem tones, clogs, and sweaters.
My Mother and I are very physically alike, especially as I age and I know she's never felt good in her skin. Our relationship is the opposite of close, but I wish I could take her shopping and help her find things she felt confident in. I really appreciate the perfect set of legs you gave me, Mama.
She's a bit taller than me but I have more of an hourglass figure. We're both long waisted and broad shouldered, like masculine cuts and hate bras. It's actually a family trait, three generations of women who either go braless or wear those sports bras that are basically tight crop tops. She likes more colour and pattern than I do though - a slightly hippy aesthetic.
My mother was a woman - I am a man, so I cannot answer this question. If you replace 'mother's Body and style' by 'father's Body and style', I try: I think my Father did not care About how he looked, he tried to wear comfortable clothes and worn out clothes. Sometimes I really looked like a bum, which made me embarassed very often. I definitely wanted to do different.
not much her body (yet) but her style in being eccentric when she feels like it or plain beige when we feels like that. dressing in moods and using it as a form of creative expression.
Body weight wise is similar but body shape and style is completely different.
She went old lady in her 30’s and I took her shopping for looks.
yes. skinny legs :(
For most of my early life, my mom dressed in very utilitarian clothes. Some femme-y trappings, like purses or dresses, she deliberately avoided, not to mention things like makeup or nail polish. These attributes informed me hugely. I'm still unwilling to spend a lot of time on making myself look polished because, nothing special, it takes away from time that I'd rather be reading or lying in bed with my boyfriend. *I should note that as I got older, I understood that my untidy tendencies could pass because I have a certain kind of hair, literally, and economic privilege. I saw the same things with other white people in professional settings, especially in certain cities.* I don't have a love per se of perfecting a hairstyle, though I love certain clothes and styles and even braiding my hair. At times, my mom now enjoys dressing and I enjoy that. The other body thing requiring mention is that she never, ever once commented negatively about her own body in my hearing. She never commented negatively on our bodies. Ever. She never said women should be valued for their actions or words rather than body size or appearance, either - she just embodied her own ideas on the topic. We sort of thought it went without saying in the larger world for a long time. I love and admire fashionable, image-conscious women, but this is also fundamentally who I am.
It affected me for over 30 years, i had her look up until i turned 33, from there it changed alot.
I think my mother likes to blend in, and I really don't. The only style she has passed down to me is a couple of turtlenecks she wore in the late '90s.
Yes my mothers ideas about fashion are hugely influential. she taught me to be conservative - not to show too much leg or chest. I went through a phase of doing the opposite but now I dress accordingly. She also taught me to feel fabric for quality and look at labels to check it is not synthetic and will not go out of shape quickly. Longevity of an item was important to her so I also look for items that last - although its hard to find.