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29. Did your parents teach you things about clothing, care for your clothing, dressing or style? What lessons do you remember? Or did you just pick things up?
Lessons from mum:
Wear natural fibres!
Wool sweaters wear better than acrylic. De-bobble your sweaters!
Ironing something makes you look more put together.
Classic not trendy.
We're not rich enough to wear cheap clothes. (i.e. trendy bad quality vs classic, better quality)
Vintage/thrift stores are great.
Good quality shoes are important (I learned that from a Sherlock Holmes story, but it was also reinforced by my mum)
I learned how to do laundry for myself in boarding school. I never did that growing up and it wasn't until I was thirteen that I learned how to do that. I had no guidance that I can remember as far as style. I would read style and fashion books when I was younger, but I don't think the way I dress now is influenced by them because I can't remember anything they said.
My mom taught me everything I know about caring for clothing but nothing about style.
My parents taught me to look after what I have.
No, my dad doesn't care for clothing and my mum seems to be just coming into her personal style in her 50s. I feel that I kind of went it alone, navigating trends until I decided to step outside of that and do my own thing.
Yes, to care for your possessions, and to have a timeless style
I still remember that they always tell to wear long clothes to cover my body
My parents always told me to take care of my clothes and not be too rough with my clothes. When I wash I do not put clothes with a certain fabric in the dryer.
My Mother sewed many of her clothes and thrifted the rest. My Father wore workwear, like Carhartt, Timberland, Dickies, and Caterpillar.
I'll be endlessly grateful that my Mother taught me how to sew. I won awards for sewing in my teens, and today I really understand how garments are put together. My Mother's never had the money to buy well-made clothes, but her sewing lessons taught me how to assess garment quality.
There are certain lessons my parents couldn't teach me, because they weren't white collar professionals. I had to learn how to navigate dry cleaning and tailoring very quickly when I graduated college.
I just picked things up. The only advice I remember being given was quite bad, like intentionally getting a sunburn because it would get rid of spots and lay a 'base' for a 'healthy tan.' Or something unhelpful about thinner being better.
Unfortunately they were very conservative. When I was 16 / 17 years of age, my mom often said: "But Young People wear this!" I did not believe her because I saw what they wore every day. Concerning my Father he showed me how to tie a tie. But he could not teach me anythink About style because he often looked like a homeless Person or like bum, with ragged or torn clothes. He is not my Fashion model.
As mentioned before I have my way of dressing in moods and going with what feels best from my mother but started choosing my own clothing very early on and my mother let me wear whatever I wanted.
neatness, care, respect for the occasion.
They never learned me about that in life.
Yes! no busy patterns on busy patterns! wear jeans that don't stretch. dont wear short skirts or clothes that are too tight. Dont wear branding or slogans that you dont support or understand.
No they didnt teach me. I just watched. My mother impulsively shopped, but she was very stylish and I remember people complimenting her style.
My mom was very pragmatic about some things - undergarments and eye wear: A white, nude, and black bra; inexpensive cotton briefs. Wire frame glasses from costco. When I finally could, as an adult, I secretly really enjoyed dropping money on gorgeous stylish glasses frames, colorful bras, and nice underwear. I will never wear a nude bra again if I can help it.
I feel like I taught them more than they taught me!! My dad is a professor and constantly asks what the ‘young kids like nowadays’. Mi madré could care less about what she wears, but she puts in more effort than she used to.
My parents taught me pretty little, now that you mention it. As long as it wasn't inappropriate for a situation, I was mostly allowed to wear what I wanted. Hence why that "grandma on vacation" phase even happened. (Thanks, Mom.)